Posts tagged healing journey
The Trauma Olympics

I want the gold, but what if I stopped exhausting myself from constant therapizing - reading all the self-help books and subscribing to every podcast on healing from narcissistic abuse?

What if instead of striving and continuing to run, I told my descendants about the leg of the journey that I traveled and prepared them for their own leg by making a nice pot roast for the road and loading up their backpacks with all of my favorite books?

What if I thanked myself for my work and trot around Olympic village without a medal around my neck, but with a big fat goofy smile on my face?

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What My Hangovers Teach Me About Myself

I am normally a morning person, but I don’t think I need to tell you that when I woke up morning after the Taylor Swift concert for the opening night of the Eras Tour, I decided to go right back to bed. It does not take much to make me feel hungover, and never has. I have the party stamina of a goldfish.

I knew how my hangover would progress and I knew exactly how I would respond to its progression, because we had been here many times - me and the effects of last night’s beer. When I got to the end of the day, I realized many things about myself that I think are worth noting. So here it goes:

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